5 Reasons Why Girls With Tattoos And Piercings Are Inspirational – A Reply
There has never been such a time in history where all men and women’s paths have been inter twined, and this can be based on a complete evolution on society and its views on equality. I read an article today that I could not disagree with more. The notion was underlying and vague in response but was that of how men’s views on women and their looks are the sole source of what is right and wrong. It started with an obvious chauvinistic view of degradation to obviously elicit some kind of response for popularity. To state that girls are mutilating themselves is a narrow minded approach and I’d like to highlight a few small gestures.

1. Women on most part, do not go under the needle for the sake of a mans approval but to express themselves in a way that they deem befitting.

2. As some women may be of the promiscuous nature, we find that tattooed and virgin skinned women are as equals in this category.

 
Now lets get to these points in hand:

 
1. They’re not all highly sexed.
A common misconception is that women with tattoos are more avid to their sexuality than those without. Now that’s not to say some aren’t but is it, as a man, my right to judge a women based on her promiscuous nature? No of course it isn’t and the idea that you can solely brand one community as such is narrow minded to say the least. Women of all sizes, colours and communities can in some way claim to the role of ‘slutty’ by their actions or decorum but is this not the time when women and men alike can sexually explore new avenues and do this without being segregated? You find that every community finds a way to push the boundaries of sexuality to fulfill some urges and needs, so why not rejoice in the fact that we have evolved to this level?

I have known many women throughout my years from doctors and laywers who have tattoos, who have also been classy and sophisticated and extremely well educated. To also touch on the subject of ‘she’ll cheat you you at a drop of a hat’ can only be seen as a personal experience boiled up.

As you see in many ‘traditional’ countries throughout the world, tattoos are seen as a part of a daily culture and a way in which men and omen define their lineage.

2. They have foresight

In our evolved generation, getting a job is now given based on skill not by the way in which a person or people look. The problem with society today is the complete lack of understanding towards communities that have a niche in the way they identify and express themselves. But this is also a odd idea of no foresight as I am yet to meet someone covered in tattoos who does not put food on the table or pay bills for their families. The argument was not of job qualifications but of a hierarchical snobbery, but still this does not make any light of the facts that mean and women in higher roles do have tattoos.

We also look at the argument for the future when you are old and graceful. I’ve seen many men and women of an age who, in themselves, are happy with their lives. Why must the argument always revolve around the need for aesthetics when in general we should be looking at a life of happiness and no regret. I myself, am a man who has tattoos and have not scraped the barrel for a design but had it professional drawn to an outstanding quality to memories that I hold dear to me. I have art on my body depicting a story of my life. Why would I be worried with aesthetics?

To potter on to another subject, motherhood, in the same way as fatherhood tattoos do not make a difference in your child’s life. The parenting skill and personality of the parents will be the indicative reason as to how your child or children will grow up. I’ve had people look at me in forlorn or derogatory ways in the past, but generally due to shock, ultimately though many have been happy with the way I hold my daughter as if she’s the best in the world and how my family are smiling and happy.

Taken from www.sheknows.com

4. They’re definitely not boring

Generally I do not see and have not seen many differences between social etiquette or social interactions between women with tattoos and those who lack them. Individuality is not solely based on what you have on your skin but in my view, I have found girls with tattoos, as well as girls who travel, girls who get pierced, girls who push the boundaries of social society to evolve. But like everything else to evolve as a international community, boundaries must be pushed to break away from devolution.

To completely degrade a community wide based on a few that did not meet your criteria can severely hinder the way in which people exchange. I myself, have met a plethora of women and men who have inspired through helping others through conservation of cultures, who have taught me ‘a thing or too’ about life’s unexpected and have given me some of the most exhilarating nights I have ever had.. Truth me told, I have not found a person who has not interested me in some way or another.

5. They’re NOT mentally ill

Mentally illness derives not by what your wear or how you aesthetically look but from underlying issues that have changed your perception of what a person needs to cope. The idea that tattoos can ‘magically’ change your personality is wide of the mark. Not to say some haven’t had tattoos who are mentally ill but to believe all women with tattoos are this way is naive.

Defined as;
Mental illness refers to a wide range of mental health conditions — disorders that affect your mood, thinking and behavior. Examples of mental illness include depression, anxiety disorders, schizophrenia, eating disorders and addictive behaviors.

If you feel this way or need someone to talk to contact SANE (UK) or equivalent in your country.

The problem is the article I’m referring is not down to a complete chauvinistic approach but that of an odd conception that everything derived from sexual gratuity or arousal. Nothing held any moral, ethical or cultural basis.

Now to the comments;

I am not adverse to hear others opinions on matters but you could get an idea for pro-forney, for example.

One commenter wrote:
YOU SLUT
YOU SLUT
YOU SLUT

Another stated as I had liberal views about equality that my children with be ‘lesbian or faggots’

Explains it all doesn’t it